Hump Day 2

Yesterday my friend Cody told me that because we work 6 days a week we get 2 hump days.  So today was Hump Day 2.  Nothing special about today.  Just worked on my interview answers.  I'm not sure about being ready for tomorrow but that's the point of practice, right?  Here's hoping.

Last night was very interesting.  H and I went out for dinner.  He finally extended his olive branch, just a little bit.  Earlier in the day we started to get into some of our reasons for being mad and had to stop each other.  Turns out he thought he needed to punish me.  He wanted me to know what my life would be like without him in it.  He felt that I over-reacted to the new guy in the office and I was pushing him out of my life.  All because I didn't want to hear about his weekend with some other girl.  Um yeah.  That was it.

So I launched into my argument of him being jealous, of why it would possibly matter who I like or not, why he had to be so vocal about it.  He had no response.  None!  I started to explain that even though we aren't together romantically we still both express jealousy, almost a sense of possession over the other person.  He actually agreed.  We both apologized and have gone back to normal.  Well whatever our normal is.

The best part of the night is when his girl from 2 weekends ago called.  I didn't mind that he answered.  It was ironic as we had been discussing her and what he was going to do about their relationship.  He finally fessed up that they had spent a lot of time together, so much so, she slept with him every night.  He had to clarify that they just kissed, no sex.  Yeah things I don't need to know.  Then he let it slip that they have plans to go to Vegas together once he's released.  Ummmmmmmm how is that not having a relationship.  Best part, she called 4 more times!  4!!  In 2 hours, after he already said he'd call her back.  Apparently since she left she calls every night and texts and IM's all day.  Oh this is great payback!  You cannot tell a 26 yo woman that you want to be just friends, but act otherwise.  After she had called then texted then called again, all with me predicting it, he realized I might be right. I think I got my point across that he needs to tell her what his intentions are. Good girl, wrong time/place.  He thought what he was doing was ok, he could keep her in the back ground for when he was ready to date.

Today we didn't talk about last night at all.  Things went back to normal.  Our odd codependency is back and I feel right in this world.  I've set up some boundaries in my own mind as to what I will and won't talk to him about.  I need to keep in mind that some things are ok to be private.

Hi Auntie, miss you lots!