My List

Happy St Patricks Day from the world's cutest baby!

Today I was talking to my Sue-bee about creating a list of all the characteristics I'd like to find in a mate.  She told me about a woman she's working with who did just that and got engaged yesterday!  It was apparently part of an Oprah show and you are to make your list and put it in your nightstand.  Read it believe it and it will happen.

Along the same lines my family believes in the secret.  Basically the power of putting you hopes/dreams/wants out to the universe and they will bring it back to you.  My sister has immense skills when it comes to this so I'm going to do my best in harnassing her intentions and make my list for love.  I try not to be the desperate girl when I go out, but sometimes that comes across as being aloof.  So instead I'm going to start my list and believe in it.  I may also need to stop going out with just guys.

My Ideal Mate

5'8" or taller

comfortable in his skin

good manners

courteous

social drinker

prefer non smoker

night owl

good family values/relationships

facial hair is a plus

bald is another plus

values his alone time away from me and respects my need for the same

treats me like a princess

I used to have a list, a long long time ago and it was so superficial and materialistic.  I've realized that those things really don't make a man.  Sure I'd love a guy who drives a truck, but if he doesn't, does that make him any less right or wrong for me?  Nope, now it might make him more attractive to me.  But I need to focus on separating the real from the fake.