Fantastic

Playing is serious business

I'm not sure that this isn't child abuse

Today was such a good day.  Hangover, a sick grandma and an awkward dinner can't keep me down.  I have the best non-boyfriend in the world.  Anyone who picks me up and chauffeurs me all day easily wins me over.  Put on top of that, our first stop was greasy appetizers and bloody mary's makes him even better.  He even commented that I wasn't being bossy and dominating, I told him when he takes such good care of me I don't need to.  Our "dates" make me think I could actually be successful in a real relationship.

Over drinks this afternoon I told him about my list making.  H didn't say much about it other than it is good to know what I want.  The one thing that has stuck with me, that he said, is that finding the right guy will most likely result in me quitting my job.  I really think he's right and I don't have any desire to quit any time soon.  Certainly this isn't law or will have to happen, but it makes me think long and hard.  For now I can deal with being single, as much as I don't really want to be.  Our time together as a non couple has made me see how nice it is to have that "someone."  I'm starting to see what all the fuss is about.