Follow Up

Here are my shoes from yesterday.   The boots are Nine West Transport and the flats are FS/NY purchased at Von Maur.  My boots are pewter in color and just kick ass.

I looked up my head and inury in the dream dictionary with decent results.

Head pain means to keep private matters to oneself and an accident to the head means tension and/or overwork.  A sign to keep work light and stress low.

Injury is a warning that you are surrounded by hostile forces and you should proceed with caution in an attempt to expose said forces.

I find this very fascinating as I've been digesting a hurtful comment said by a very good friend.  She means well but criticizing me is the downfall of our friendship.  On more than one occasion I've reminded her I don't need mothering just the advice I had solicited from her.  After repeatedly asking her to not further discuss the matters of my finances she continued to dig and degrade me for my monetary misgivings.  

I've recognized my downfalls and am working diligently to correct them.  I've put in an application to refinance my home, I am looking for a new vehicle to save on my monthly payment, insurance and gas, and I'm trying to settle a 6 yr lawsuit that would help clear a large portion of my debt. I wish she could recognize the good steps I've taken but for the second time in a week she commented on my poor choices.  This was immediately said as we left the consignment shop with my great return.  In my mind it's time to spend less time together, good thing she's leaving town for 2 weeks and hopefully I'll be off to work before she gets back, or she goes to work.  Either way space is needed.

Today was spent working and paying bills.  Not an exciting way to spend my Saturday, but after having Thursday and Friday feel like the weekend instead it needed to be done.  Plus my work email was out of control.  I had over 20 emails yesterday that all needed some kind of attention.

Tonight I'm going to keep watching Big Bang re-runs and try to finish a scarf I'm crocheting.  I found a great pattern for a baby blanket but I can't start more than one project at time.  They never get finished if I abandon them for something different.  I'm so happy my friend has a neighbor who taught me how to read a pattern and do more than one stitch.